The real problem is, I can't be with anyone that wants to be with me. In some strange mental block that I have, I can't be with anyone that wants to be with me. I think it's sort of like the old quote by comedian Groucho Marx, who once said, "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member".
In the same way I guess, I refuse to be with any woman that would have me as a boyfriend. Something must be wrong with that girl! I'm not quite sure what it is, but there must be something there. And, I don't want to get involved to find out what it is.